🍁 生命真正的依靠 / 217
如果天天跟別人理論，希望別人改善對自己的一切，假設發現他沒有改善，就方寸大亂、重心全失。那麼別人對我們的方式成了生命的第一追求，決定我們生命苦樂的唯一原則。 這樣的生命，這樣活著，會沒有重心。一旦憑依的別人不穩定，我們甚至無法活下去。應該思考一下什麼是可以永久依靠的力量，把變動不安的、不可憑信的依靠廢除掉，去找尋生命真正的依靠——那沒有瞋恨、永遠慈悲和智慧的皈依處，以及沿著佛陀教法訓練出的相續中那永不枯竭的力量。
秋 破煩惱
🍁 生命真正的依靠 / 217
如果天天跟别人理论，希望别人改善对自己的一切，假设发现他没有改善，就方寸大乱、重心全失。那么别人对我们的方式成了生命的第一追求，决定我们生命苦乐的唯一原则。 这样的生命，这样活着，会没有重心。一旦凭依的别人不稳定，我们甚至无法活下去。应该思考一下什么是可以永久依靠的力量，把变动不安的、不可凭信的依靠废除掉，去找寻生命真正的依靠——那没有瞋恨、永远慈悲和智慧的皈依处，以及沿着佛陀教法训练出的相续中那永不枯竭的力量。
秋 破烦恼
🍁 The Real Dependence of Life / 217
If we argue with others every day, hoping that they will improve their treatment toward us, and if we find that they have not improved, we will be in a state of confusion and lose all our focus. Then the way we are treated by others becomes the first pursuit of life, the only principle that determines the happiness and suffering of our lives. Such a life, living in this way, will have no centre of gravity. If the person we rely on becomes unstable, we cannot even live. We should think about what is the power that can be relied on permanently, abolish the unstable and unreliable reliance, and find the true reliance of life - the place of refuge that is free from anger, always compassionate and wise, and the never-ending power in the continuum of training along the Buddha's teachings.
Autumn 破烦恼